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Have you ever thought about this? I've been doing a LOT of reading during the lockdown and it occurred to me that mediators (including me!) use the word *compromise* a great deal. But there is a big distinction between 'compromise' and 'collaboration'. Generally...
Even as a trained mediator, I often forget to apply my listening skills. My friends and family would be the first to say I constantly interrupt them, so keen to provide input! It's not always easy to be quiet and just listen, especially when you have relevant insight...
Being future focused can really make a difference when parties are trying to find a way forward, out of conflict. Conflict is a part of life -within families, at work, in business and in our communities - but it need not destroy ongoing relationships. Mediation is a...
When looking for a way to solve a problem, it's essential to think outside ourselves - there is rarely one side to a story. To find a compromise position, it's important to honestly acknowledge our role in the conflict - whether that be part of the cause, holding a...
A lot goes on behind the scenes. Once initial consultations (free) and intake sessions are completed, we ask all of our clients to supply us with a written outline of their issues and copies of relevant documents. We also ask them the provide us with some ideas about...
If you're considering mediation, it's important to ensure that the mediator you choose to engage is nationally accredited. There are various guidelines mediators must meet in order to be accredited. They must then apply to be reaccredited every 2 years. Having...
Finding a solution to conflict can be hard work - sometimes it can feel like you take 2 steps forward and then 1 back. It's hard to stay positive during negotiations, especially when there is tension or you feel attacked, humiliated or not heard. With the help of an...
Listening properly is hard and even more difficult in heightened emotional situations. Add conflict to the mix and there's yet another layer of complexity. Mediators are trained to help you listen. This doesn't mean you have to accept what the other person is saying,...
Do you wear alot of different 'hats' in your life? I sure do. Lawyer, mediator, negotiator, mother, wife, daughter, sister, friend, cook, cleaner, nurse, listener, learner, teacher, driver and the list goes on and on and on... Sometimes it's all a bit much and I find...
It's quite unnerving that there has been such an increase in these complaints in recent years. This could be due, in part, to a rise in awareness of the importance to bring complaints, and of course the #metoo movement. Without going into specifics - there is simply...